The Seductivenes of Infatuation, or "But I'm in Love"

As a young man I remember standing around before work on a construction site. The men were talking as they often did about people and happenings when someone mentioned that the son-in-law of a sub-contractor was divorcing. Of course he was also fired, though he had been in line to be a partner. Apparently he had met a girl who worked at an ice cream shop and had “fallen in love” with her and went home and told his wife. One man spat out, “He got his brain caught in his zipper.” Well, pardon the crudeness, but that pretty much describes the situation.

I have lived more than half my life since then and have seen this same script play out many times. It is not sex dependent; women can be as guilty of this as men. Often a marriage is going through a difficult time, one partner meets someone different, sparks fly and the course is set.

What is going on? People confuse love with infatuation.

Infatuation is easy, Love takes work.
Infatuation is temporary, Love never fails.
Infatuation is about how I feel. Love is about seeking the best for the beloved.
Infatuation is quick to get and quick to leave, Love takes a lifetime.

All that surrounds us says that “love” hits you from outside yourself and you are powerless before it. What a lie. Solomon warns us of flattering and seductive words and tells us to run. Of course you can do something when infatuation hits you. It may be fun to give in, but what pain and destruction you cause.

Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. (II Tim. 2:22)

For the sake of your spouse, for your vows, for God whose you are,

RUN!